Questions I have received
Q:)Hey Kevin, so I was wondering do u have any special trick to keep diaper bulge at a minimum?. Also how do u deal with messy changes, is there any products that make it easier? Really love hearing from you
A:)Greetings Micah and thank you for your questions,
You asked about ways to cut down on the notorious Mr. diaper bulge. You know the bulge that says to people who really aren't paying attention to your crotch that you are part of the diapered class? Well there you have it. First of all people don't notice because they have no reason to suspect to begin with. Its a subconscious thing. That's not to say people don't notice. I'm sure people have at times noticed my padded derrière or my bulging crotch(no folks I don't hold a record in the Guinness books for the words most endowed male) but most really don't.
OK humor done. Really the only thing you can do is pretend you gained 10 pounds over night and move up a pant size. That will also, by the way, cut down on the rustling noise people don't pay attention to.
You also asked me about messy changes and dealing with them and the answer depends on whether I'm out and about or at home. If I'm at home l, I just hop in the shower and get clean that way but if I'm in a hurry, I use wipes. Same if I'm out and about. I quickly find the closest restroom I can. Of course I'm a single parent with little family support besides my dying mom so many of times I have had my self emasculated because I have had bring my young daughter who is too little to be alone into the stall or bathroom and change in front of her. It's tough. Its also tough when I can't find a bathroom.
>Please let me know if I have your permission to post your questions, my responses, along with your first name and last initial.
>Thank you again Micah,
PS Oh and you can also wear thinner diapers if you can get away with it. I know I can't.
Q:)I'm only bladder incontinent but was thinking maybe an enema each day would save you from having a messy diaper in public. What brands do you use? I use attends waistband and find by using a baby diaper my diaper last longer at work (13 hour shift). Do u use plastic pants or adult onsies? I'm sorry for all the questions, it's hard to find nice people to talk to about it, he'll even dating is hard :(
A:) Thank you again and its totally okay to ask me questions. as many as you want. you can add me on yahoo as well at kevin_m_cline
now for the answers:
I cant even time my self to make enemas effective in doing what you suggested. I also tend to go number 2 3-5 times a day which would mean that even if i could time my self, id need to use a lot of enemas and it wouldnt be safe for me my incontinence leaves me pretty similar to an infant in that my body for both sides of elimination is automatic. it just happens when ever with out warning.
As far as brands my insurance pays for cheaps ones so im using the covidien wings super plus. they are alright but much prefer the nicer brands like dry 24/7, molicare superplus and abena M4. I havent used plastic pants but really need to during the night because i leak alot. As far as doublers I have found that abena makes nice ones that are thin enough to not impede the leg gathers.
thank you for the permission,
PS DATING CAN BE HARD BUT IF THE PERSON TRULY LOVES YOU, DIAPERS SHOULDNT MATTER AND NEITHER SHOULD YOUR BLADDER CONTROL. eNOUGH SAID
Q:)Do u use any diaper rash cream?do u use nullo to take the odor out of your poop. (removed for privacy reasons) Do u find that your incontinence makes it harder to date people? If u want u can text me at xxx-xxx-xxxx, i hope to get to know u better
A:) Oh yeah. I remember your profile. Just letting you know my standard disclaimer. site is incontinence only and non abdl related. any how. I do use diaper rash cream every time I change. I swear by it. Also because I shave all over for maintenance and because I hate body hair, and because of sensitive skin, I get diaper rash really easy, I actually use Desitin over night relief 40 percent zinc oxide. as far as the Nullo, I have yet to figure out why but there is something in it that im allergic to plus its just not some thing i can squeeze out of my budget on a regular basis but sheeze would that make my life easier.
I have found that dating is hit or miss. Some will not want to deal with being with a guy who has bowel and bladder control issues and has to wear diapers. Especially if they are a parents like me. Others have been totally cool with it. right now I'm with an awesome person that totally loves me. All of me.
ps ill text you soon.